Izzeldin Abuelaish and Remembrance Day


Dr. Izzeldin Abuelaish (2009)

Although I have attended Remembrance Day ceremonies at the National War Memorial in Ottawa in the past, in 2009 I decided to support a smaller event whose theme was peace and reconciliation. On November 10 I was one of about three hundred people who heard an agonizingly sad but ultimately hopeful speech by Dr. Izzeldin Abuelaish. He is a Palestinian paediatric physician and peace advocate whose house in Gaza was struck by Israeli tank shell on January 16, 2009.

Abuelaish, a widower, was home that day with his eight children and other family members and was scheduled to give an interview on Israeli television via cell phone. A shell fired from a tank hit his house and killed three of his daughters, aged fourteen, fifteen and twenty-one, along with a seventeen-year-old niece. Shada, another daughter, and a second niece were injured. The journalist who called moments after the attack found the doctor sobbing inconsolably. “My girls, O God, they are dead,” he said. The video clip was broadcast around the world. Abuelaish and his family became the face of the human suffering of Palestinians in Gaza. A ceasefire was declared two days later.

A “rarity”

The New York Times describes Abuelaish as “a rarity, a Gazan at home among Israelis.” He told his Ottawa audience that he practiced medicine in both Gaza and Israel and that he has delivered as many Jewish babies as Palestinian ones. His says tragedy has not deflected him from the path of peace and reconciliation. “I am Muslim but we have to go beyond that to think about humanity and what brings us, Muslims and Jews, together,” he said. “I believe that God is good and even tragedy is good. I assure you I am looking forward. I believe that everything is possible other than having my daughters back.”

Ed Broadbent, former leader of the New Democratic Party and a human rights campaigner, was the evening’s moderator. “As a Canadian, a father and grandfather,” Broadbent said to Abuelaish, “it is almost impossible for me to conceive of losing these children as you have lost your daughters.” Broadbent then said to the audience: “It would be easier to understand if Dr. Abuelaish came through that with dreams of vengeance. He continues to reach out to those who might be considered his enemies, but he does not see them as such.” Abuelaish was nominated for the 2009 and 2010 Nobel Peace Prize for his efforts to bring peace between Israelis and Palestinians.

Potlucks for Peace

He was in Ottawa as the guest of Potlucks for Peace, a group of about thirty Jewish and Arab people who gather monthly to share food and talk about how to pursue peace in the Middle East. The group’s members do not always agree on solutions—whether, for example, there should be one state or two states in the region, or whether Israeli settlements pushed into the Palestinian West Bank are justified in the name of security. I have, at previous of their events, sensed tensions over the Israeli occupation of Palestinian lands on the one hand and anxiety about Israeli security on the other. The potluck group appears to hold it all together through mutual respect and discipline. “We believe that out of the willingness to engage in dialogue, solutions can arise,” the group says on its website. “We hope that our very existence sends a positive message.”

Abuelaish’s story has a Canadian twist. He had been invited to the University of Toronto to undertake a three-year medical residency and was making plans to move his eight children to Canada when his home in Gaza was shelled and his three daughters killed. Abuelaish did come to Toronto in March 2009. His seventeen-year-old daughter, who was injured in the attack, spent four months in hospital and is now studying computer engineering in Canada.

Medical analogies

Abuelaish draws many of his peace analogies from his practice of medicine. “As a physician, I am not allowed ever to give up hope on a patient. We must act and we must forgive each other,” he said. “No one is perfect. We make mistakes. Forgiveness allows us to move forward.” He also said: “As a doctor, I know that hatred is a toxin. The path of light in the long run is the more efficient choice than to live with hate and be consumed with revenge”

He is an inspirational speaker in the best sense, but his response to questions indicated that he is not a politician or diplomat and is unlikely to be one of those negotiating land for peace or the future of Israeli settlements. When asked during the question period if he was in favour of an economic boycott of Israel similar to that against South Africa in years past, he did not answer but spoke about his high hopes for peace initiatives driven by the Obama administration. Asked whether he favours a one-state or two-state solution for the region, he fell back on a medical metaphor. “Survival is most important at the moment. The first action is to stabilize the patient. One state or two states is theoretical. There is a Palestinian nation and an Israeli nation, and they must live together in peace.”

Remembrance Day

I did not attend the Remembrance Day ceremony at the National War Memorial that year but I did watch it on television. It is always moving to see the veterans but less so the fly bys, march bys, and the firing of canons. As I watched and heard the television commentary, it was all about us: our freedom, our sacrifice, our families, and our heroes.

Even the armed forces chaplain who spoke could invoke God’s caring and sympathy only for us. In this ceremony, there was no compassion for the other—for example, the bride and groom and their guests in an Afghan wedding procession, for example, who were bombed to bits in 2008 by an air strike called in by NATO soldiers. No one on Remembrance Day recalls the deadly mess of war that remains for others to clean up after the troops have withdrawn—the unexploded land mines, the buildings and fields in ruins, the shrapnel embedded in flesh, and the body burns from white phosphorous.

Potlucks for Peace and Dr. Abuelaish attempt to reach across a divide of fear and hatred to acknowledge and embrace the other. Our officially planned and sanctioned Remembrance Day ceremonies do not.

 Note: I posted this piece to my blog in November 2009 and it is included in my new book, Pulpit and Politics: Competing Ideologies in Canadian Public Life.  






3 thoughts on “Izzeldin Abuelaish and Remembrance Day

  1. This man has suffered an unimaginable wrong, but continues his good works. All of us who desire peace can not attain peace by being violent. The rejection of violence as a solution takes the highest of all resolve. My heart goes out to Dr. Abuelaish and his example is the real meaning of Remembrance Day. To have compassion for those who lead by the highest example possible are blessed. Blessed are the peacemakers!


  2. It is indeed disturbing to watch the Harper government’s atempts to use the military to create a culture that celebrates war. We see the continual promotion of militarism by Ottawa everywhere, including pur pubic broadcaster which has become nothing but a shill for military adventurism.

    In recent years, our federal govenment has seen fit to reverse Canada’s role from that of ‘peace keeper’ to that of ‘war maker.’ In so doing, they betray every vetran who has served the cause of peace.

    As Mr. Borreson points out: ‘Blessed are the peace makers for they shall be called children of God.’ It does take any imagination to figure out how Jesus regards the war makers. Truly our leaders love the darkness more than the light.

    The federal government has abused our military by using it for purely partisan political purposes, shifting is role from that of peace keeper to that of war maker, and being very stingy with vetrans when they do return home. Nor should we ever forget that Prime Minister Harper strongly advocated we join the U.S.-led invasion of Iraq – an international criminal enterprise if ever there was one.

    I do not condemn our soldiers. They deserve praise and respect. They go where they are sent and they serve at the pleasure of others. Indeed, our men and women have distinguished themselves by the dignity they have maintained despite the perversion of their role by short-sighted politicians.

    So, I buy a poppy and I wear it, and I support other legion functions in my area. But I mourn for Canada because our government has lost the will to stand up for peace. I only hope the flame of peace ontinues burning in the Canadian soul in this hour of darkness, and that someday we will be free – free at least – of the mad men and mad women so enamoured of armed conflict.


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